Wedding Thank you Cards
What to write on a wedding thank you card and when wedding thank you cards should be sent.
Are thank you notes really necessary? Certainly! Wedding thank you cards show your guests how much you appreciate them taking their time to attend your wedding and that you have safely received their gift with joy.
You will also want to send a thank you note to your wedding vendors (wedding planner, florist, photographer/videographer, caterer, etc.) that played an important role in turning your wedding dreams into a beautiful and memorable reality.
WHAT TO WRITE ON A WEDDING THANK YOU CARD?
First, start off with the guest’s name. Then express your gratitude for their presence that made your day extra special. Any memorable moments you had with them during your celebration would be a nice touch to your message as well. Additionally, if you have received a gift from this guest, acknowledge their specific gift and let them know how grateful you are of the gift. End the note by signing both of your names at the bottom of the card.
Any gifter shall be thanked — those who attended, those who could not make it, and those who were not invited.
HERE ARE SOME EXAMPLES YOU COULD FOLLOW:
For Attendance Only
Dear Tiffany,
We are ecstatic that you could join us on our wedding day. Your infectious energy and the fun we had together on the dance floor made our day even more memorable. Thank you for bringing such joy and laughter to our celebration. We are so glad you could be a part of it.
With love, [your names]
For Attendance with Gift
Dear Aunt Carla,
We are beyond grateful for your presence at our wedding. Your warmth and love made our day even more special — thank you for celebrating with us and for your thoughtful gift. This beautiful stand mixer will be put to good use making delicious treats with lots of love. And the green color is just perfect! Your thoughtfulness means a lot to us and added to the joy of our special day.
With love, [your names]
Monetary Gifts
Dear Payton,
We are incredibly thankful for your generous gift and your presence at our wedding. Your contribution will help us create lasting memories on our honeymoon and begin our new life together. Your support means the world to us, and we are beyond grateful for your kindness. It was an absolute delight having you at our wedding!
With love, [your names]
For Those Who Could Not Make It But Gave A Gift
Dear Oliver and Luci,
Although we missed having you both with us on our wedding day, we want to express our heartfelt thanks for your thoughtful gift. Your kindness means so much to us, and we felt your presence in spirit. Thank you for your warm wishes and being a part of our journey.
With love, [your names]
Not Invited But Gave A Gift
Dear Jude,
We were deeply touched to receive your thoughtful wedding gift, and we want to express our sincere gratitude for your kindness. Your generosity added to the joy of our celebration, and we are grateful for your warm wishes during this special time in our lives.
Thank you for being a part of our journey, and we look forward to creating many happy memories together.
With love, [your names]
For the Wedding Vendors
Dear Mazie,
Your help in making our wedding day a success did not go unnoticed. From capturing every beautiful moment as our photographer, your support and passion meant the world to us. Thank you for being there and for your invaluable contribution.
With love, [your names]
WHEN SHOULD WEDDING THANK YOU CARDS BE SENT?
Wedding thank you cards should and are typically sent out within three months after the wedding. However, it’s always a nice gesture to send them out as soon as possible after receiving gifts or gestures of congratulations. Sending thank you cards in a timely manner not only shows appreciation but also reflects your thoughtfulness and attention to detail. It keeps the positive energy flowing after the wedding and reinforces your gratitude to your guests for their support and gifts.
A physical thank you note from the bride and groom will be a nice, memorable keepsake for guests.
